The Bridesmaids

 Bride or Bridesmaid . . .

Whether you are a Bride, Bridesmaid or Matron of honour, we will answer all your questions! We will explain what the role of the Bridesmaid entails, give you tips on choosing a bridesmaid, her dress, and help you decide on the perfect hairstyle.

How many Bridesmaids?

There  is no set rule as to how many Bridesmaids you need, but generally speaking the number of Bridesmaids will match the number of Groomsmen.  For example: If the Groom has decided on a Best Man and two Groomsmen then ideally you should choose a Chief Bridesmaid and two additional Bridesmaids.

Who Should I Choose?

For some brides there is no question who they will choose, but if you have several sisters or close friends and you only need (or can afford to have) two Bridesmaids then this can be a big problem.  Choose someone you can rely on and trust to help when you need them. 

Bridesmaids Duties

 Assist the Bride with the wedding plans (help with /advise on colours, themes, music, favours etc)

• Provide moral support for the bride whilst she is trying to find a dress
• Help choose bridesmaids dresses and accessories (the Bride should make the final decision)
• Offer to pay for some or all of the Bridesmaids outfit
• Be available to attend dress fittings

• Offer to help with addressing invitations etc
• Organise or host the hen party 
• Assist with planning the wedding rehearsal and be available to attend
• Arrange a rehearsal dinner
• Check the Bride has a thorough to-do list prepared for the morning (including who collects flowers etc - see our Step By Step Guide)
• Ensure the Bride has her 'Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue!'
• On the wedding day, assist the Bride dressing and with hair / make-up if required
• Hold the brides bouquet during the wedding ceremony
• Assist the Bride taming her train and/or veil during the ceremony and throughout the day
• If you are Chief Bridesmaid - sign the wedding register with the Bride, Groom and Best Man Be on hand throughout the wedding day to provide support as required
• Ensure elderly guests are being looked after by someone
• Make a list of any gifts received on the wedding day
• Keep a purse handy with makeup for the bride and let her know if she needs to attend to hair or makeup throughout the day
• Ask guests to sign the Guest Book
• After the Bride and Groom's first dance, dance with the Groomsman you are partnered with (Best Man partners Chief Bridesmaid or Matron of Honour)
• Round other guests up to dance after the formal first dance sequence 
• Decorate the going away car if appropriate!